tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43216768760803536102024-03-12T19:57:01.735-07:00Paul R WoodPaul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-10568016927974086792024-02-01T09:43:00.000-08:002024-02-02T13:25:16.650-08:00<p style="text-align: left;"><b><span style="color: #e69138; font-family: arial; font-size: large;"> <a href="https://paulrwood.blogspot.com/2024/02/choke-on-dust-seems-like-every-two.html">Don't Choke on the Dust!!</a></span></b></p><p><br /></p><p>Seems like every two years or so I dust this thing off, vow to write some and then find myself coming back in another two years. This is just a bunch of ramblings about a bunch of different things.</p><p>I think back with very fond memories, the first time I met a slew of ed tech folks, I believe in Round Rock, Texas. Thanks to Kyle Stevens who was teaching at Bishop Dunne, he wanted to go to a conference where Wes Fryer was planning on presenting. That was as close as Wes would get to us at BD. </p><p>We went and met so many ed-tech folks that I will never be able to name them all. Here are a few. So much fun. Wes, Miguel Guhlin, Mike Gras, Scott Floyd, David Jakes, Carolyn Foote, Steve Hargadon. Everyone had an awesome time and everyone was fighting for more bandwidth as there were things to present and talk about. Many alliances were formed that day and a lot of folks found people they could connect with from that day forward.</p><p>My 44 years at Bishop Dunne were some of the best years of my life. I would hope so spending 44 years there. The ed-tech circle kept getting bigger and bigger. Canadians, Mexicans, Europeans, Australians all entered the group, and all shared and cared. I learned so much not only from the ed-tech folks but also the students that I was able to engage with through the years.</p><p>Ordination as a deacon for the Diocese of Dallas, in 2006, helped to bring me closer to members of the parish I was assigned to and also to people in general. I have enjoyed that aspect so very much. The help of Diane, walking by my side allowed me to feel supported and cared for along with being loved. My son Daniel has been a trooper as he has grown and stretched. He now works for a fine dining establishment in Ft. Worth, 61 Osteria. He is one of the Sommeliers there.</p><p>Retirement after 44 years as a faculty/staff member and 6 years as a student was welcome and I have enjoyed the free time to do other things. Currently I m in a graduate program working toward a Spiritual Direction Certification to work with people who are searching and needing a guide. I hope to be that person to help.</p><p>I look forward to the next trip Diane and I take. We have been truly blessed with trips to national parks in the western part of the United States. We are hoping to get to Alaska by car before too much longer. Dad continues to motor on. He will be 98 this year. He always tells me 138 WW II veterans die each day, he hopes he gets his chance soon. We shall see dad. God's time not yours.</p><p>Got a call last night from Kristina Ishmael who is heading home to Phoenix from the DC area and wanted to get together for lunch. Looking forward to that today and hoping to catch up and hug up.</p><p>I am here if you need someone to talk to, to listen, to offer a shoulder.</p><p>And as always so many questions and so little time.</p><p>Stay safe out there.</p>Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-27174104879122361042022-08-08T10:09:00.005-07:002022-08-08T10:31:28.751-07:00New Beginnings<p></p><p class="MsoNormal">Early August, schools are cranking up. A new beginning. I must admit, I miss
the students and many of the faculty, but I don’t miss the meetings, the blood
borne pathogen videos, CPR training and most especially the active shooter
drills. I fought having them and it became apparent that we needed to do them
so that everyone could be prepared. I don’t miss them at all.<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal">To teachers, new, intermediate or seasoned, I hope you have a wonderful year. If I can do anything for you, I am here. Get in touch.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I currently am looking forward to a trip we have planned in
October. We are going to the big 5 National Parks in UTAH, along with a two
night stay on reservation in Monument Valley. As you know we love to drive, but
because we love going west so much, it is getting more difficult to drive a
different way and see different things. It’s all good. We will figure it out.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As the school year begins, please know I am here for you and
I am more than willing to talk with you if you just need an accepting ear. Life
became tough a while back and we need to understand we are all in this
together. Don’t be afraid to contact me. No judgements. Please stay safe out
there and truly love your students. You could very well be the best thing that
happens to them each and every day.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So many questions and so little time. Prayers for you all.<o:p></o:p></p><br /><p></p>Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-19672211122887067512022-04-27T13:46:00.003-07:002022-04-28T16:37:14.638-07:00Where Does the Time Go?<p>Sitting on the balcony of a condo in Lincoln City, OR., I took a break from watching the rhythm of the ocean and listening to the majesty of the waves. I started looking through places that I wrote and saw that it had been 2 years since I last wrote. </p><p>On December 31, 2019, I retired from my position as the Director of Technology at Bishop Dunne Catholic School. I was also a student there from grades 7 - 12. So all total, I spent 50 years of my life at one facility. I retired because of that 50 years and feeling like it was time. I left at December because I started in January of 1976 as an assistant baseball coach. The next year I was full time as a teacher and a coach.</p><p>Then Coronavirus 19 became the word of the day. While there was some inkling about something on the horizon, I doubt anyone thought it would become that big a deal. When I wrote 2 years ago, I wondered about how we would handle the mental issues that so many people would have as a result of what we were seeing. Those issues are strong today still. I wish I could do more for so many people.</p><p>So where to now? I am one of the lucky ones. I have a wonderful, loving partner, who loves to travel. We have kept a close eye on the numbers of infections, hospitalizations, etc. We kept an eye on them because my 96 year old father lives with us and we didn’t want to bring it home to him. We are all vaccinated, double boosted and have stayed clear of the infection.</p><p>In the last 2 years we have snuck out to Myrtle Beach, Yellowstone, Joshua Tree, Death Valley, and currently sit in Lincoln City, OR., on the coast. We drive to all of these places. We enjoy going West more than East. We drive because we want to see the country and not just fly over it. The hotel chain we frequent delivers an electronic key to my phone when we arrive in the town we are staying for the night. We are cautious about where we eat. While we aren’t scared of the virus, we do like to be cautious.</p><p>I realize this is kind of all over the place, but I hope to get more focused as I hope to progress this writing.</p><p>I hope you have stayed well, I hope you are enjoying where you are in life. Always know, I am here if you wish to talk with someone or need someone to support you.</p><p>As always, so many questions and so little time.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-79377684152919175572020-04-28T11:23:00.000-07:002020-04-28T11:23:01.528-07:00Thinking out loud here, or at least on the keyboard.
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I started thinking about what is the amount of trauma that teachers
will be dealing with once the schools open up? What amount of trauma will
students be trying to deal with? But wait, kids are resilient, flexible. Maybe
so but they have feelings and emotions and they are missing out on being kids.
What about those that have lost friends, relatives, maybe even parents? What if
their parents were and are on the front lines? What if they had to run the
house while their parents were off being essential? Responsible for online
learning in their homes every day. What if their household was one that saw the
stats of abuse rise?</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">What about those on the front line? The medical
professionals that were the hand holders while someone took their last breath? Or
help by holding a phone for face time because that was the only way those
family members were able to see their loved one before they died? What about
the front line folks and the separation from their families because they didn’t
want to see this disease come into their homes and hurt their families? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">What about the lost jobs or the fear of walking in to work
with people who don’t take precautions or don’t think it’s real? What about the
curve flattening and then a second wave? Who knows?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I know some folks and friends that are dealing with PTSD
symptoms from previous days in their lives and how will this affect them? Many
of these individuals are teachers or administrators. How will they be able to
shoulder their loads and then handle their students loads when our schools open
back up? I worry about these things but I also pray about these things.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Some may say don’t worry about it but I love my school and I
always thought about the faculty, staff and students as my very own children.
It gets that way for many after a certain number of years. It is especially
after 44 years at the same place. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Please stay safe out there. Find a buddy and talk out there.
Find a prayer and be strong out there. Always know I am here and willing to
talk but more importantly I am willing to listen to you talk. I pray each and
every day. It is important. But remember most of all I would rather talk to you
than pray over you at a service.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So many questions and so little time. But now oh so many prayers.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-26034697245571358132019-11-22T12:49:00.001-08:002019-11-22T21:02:10.979-08:00No More BlinkingNot that I won't blink again, but hopefully there won't be as much time between posts on my blog. Many know my mom passed away back in January. Many also know the difference when you lose a parent. My dad who lives with us, had a very set routine, get up at 5, get dressed and then out the door to the nursing home where mom was. She was non-communicative in the last year or two, slowly slipping away. I actually felt like she left a while back, so when she did die, I was happy for her. She had to be in a better place. After all was said and done, I then started to concentrate on my father.<br />
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Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-80976033991222017372016-11-06T13:19:00.000-08:002016-11-06T13:19:03.724-08:00Have you had the Talk – 2
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Back in July when I wrote “<a href="http://paulrwood.blogspot.com/2016/07/have-you-had-talk.html" target="_blank">Have you Had the Talk</a>” I was
going to leave it at that. Since that time many things have transpired so I
want to start expanding on that a bit as more and more people are talking to me
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">My siblings and I are fortunate that mom and dad took care
of their money and investments. So far there has been little “investment” from
the children toward this care but there has definitely been some close scrutiny
to make sure things are in place. We have been fortunate that dad has allowed
us that access with very little struggle. Looking in to different types of help
such as veteran benefits and Medicaid, the difficulty that I have seen is that
you have to be almost completely destitute financially in order to go down that path.
Since mom and dad handled things well, we would have to play the game of them
turning everything over to someone to appear to not have anything and then use
those programs. It is important that you take the time to pursue every avenue of help you can, but know that it is time consuming. We are talking about doing what we can for our parents and yet I still believe we can never afford what our parents truly deserve.</span></div>
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as well as I do they pay their own way. They still have their house which is a
mile away from mine. I write out bills for dad on a regular basis and if I am
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is hard to do, yes, people don’t want you in their stuff, but having to make
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Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-14019912235983679542016-08-13T12:15:00.003-07:002016-08-13T12:18:34.472-07:00A Journey with Jim<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "arial";">Shortly after being asked to be a participant in
the life transition of Leanne, I was asked to walk with another parishioner by
the name of Jim. Jim had been diagnosed with <a href="http://www.cancer.org/cancer/multiplemyeloma/detailedguide/multiple-myeloma-what-is-multiple-myeloma" target="_blank">multiple myeloma</a>. Our first visit
was in the hospital where he was being treated. He was there for about a week
this time so I made frequent visits as we established a deeper relationship.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
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oldest son went to the <a href="http://www.bdcs.org/" target="_blank">school</a> I work at and the family were founding members of
our <a href="http://www.holyspiritcatholic.com/" target="_blank">parish</a>. Jim was a focused, involved man in the parish, and also as a
husband, father, brother. He was a good guy that always looked to get the
best out of every situation and person he met. Jim was never caustic that I saw
through the years but supportive, caring and gentle.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "arial";">I was honored to be brought into his life at this
time. The chance to see where a person’s faith has brought them and how they
are thinking and believing is one that is a true privilege. The love Jim had
and showed for people also showed in the people that showered not only Jim, but also his wife and family with love and
care in the end. Jim was surrounded by his family, his siblings and other
relatives, all doing whatever they could to help Jim to be comfortable in his
final days.</span></span></span></span></div>
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laughed and cried and we prayed for Jim, because we now know he is praying for
and helping to watch over us. As Jim slept one day while I was visiting (there
is a joke in there somewhere I am sure) I did what I have starting doing, I
pulled out my phone, opened the Pages app and started writing.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">For Jim<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">I walked in the room and said hello<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">He turned his head in my direction<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">The look was one of recognition<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">He was more relaxed than yesterday<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">The words of prayer we whispered softly<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">Then he told me that God had found him<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">So different from yesterday he was<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">For he questioned all and was troubled<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">Yet now he knows and has heard the call<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">For God has found him and that was all<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">That Jim needed to make the decision<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">The family agrees as well as physicians<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">So home he will go tomorrow morning <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">But it could be just a spiritual yearning <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">A life with no pain or age he seeks<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">A true life with God is what he needs<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">A good a faithful servant he has been<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
<span class="MsoSubtleEmphasis"><span style="font-style: normal; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"><span style="color: #404040;"><span style="font-family: "helvetica";">So thankfully now Jim gets the ultimate win. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span><br />
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are all in this together. We are all members of the human race. My hope in
these situations is to bring some comfort and understanding to the people I
work with. That and to merely be a vessel for the Holy Spirit to work through
me to bring these people to their ultimate home. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-67610225200081727042016-07-30T19:20:00.001-07:002016-07-30T19:22:54.664-07:00A Man and His Wife<span style="font-family: "arial";">As a deacon in the Catholic Church, I get a lot of
opportunities to work with people in different situations. A little more than
two years ago I was asked by a woman with terminal cancer to walk with her as
she came to terms with her mortality. I would like to think I helped her as she
seemed more and more comfortable the closer she got. I can assure you that
along the way she taught me a great deal as well. She passed away in early
April and her funeral Mass was held at Holy Spirit, which is the Church I am
assigned to with the Diocese of Dallas.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">She was cremated and her burial was later in Kansas where
the family has burial property in a beautiful cemetery in Fredonia. I was able
to travel to Fredonia to officiate the burial and visit once again with family
and friends of this wonderful woman. The opportunity that was presented was a
result of relationships. Relationships that are established early in life as
well as relationships that came about later.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">While in Kansas, I took the time to do some writing and came
up with the following that I want to dedicate to both the husband and wife who
were so very generous by allowing me in to their home on a very regular basis. I
titled this:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A Husband’s Wife.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">What is the value of a life<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">Ask the husband who lost his wife<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">For 50 years they wove their souls<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">Now we ask for whom the bell tolls<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">The care that he gave her while she was ill<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">Could never repay her but she asked for nil<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">Was love that brought them both together<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">And love that led them to be better<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">They are both a shining example to see<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">For I was the one that got to be<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">In their home to listen and lead<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">I even took time with God to plead<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">To make her well so they could continue<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">To lead their lives ‘twas a busy venue<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">Yet they were given those 50 years<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">And he now knows she has no fears<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">For in the arms of God she waits<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">For him to arrive at those beautiful gates<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">To walk hand in hand in God’s great land<o:p></o:p></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">May she rest in peace as part of God’s plan.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">June 2016<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">I still meet with her husband on occasion and he is
working though his pain. He is fortunate to have so many loving and caring
friends and family to surround him as that is how they led their lives. Always
reaching out and being there for others. I continue to learn so much and I am
honored to have these opportunities.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial";">So much to learn and so little time.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-65906047764715044922016-07-12T21:05:00.000-07:002016-07-12T21:05:15.816-07:00I Have a Son.I have one son and the other day I sent him a text. This was the day after so much chaos broke loose in Dallas. When things of this nature happen, I usually send a text telling him I love him and I hope he is OK. When I send those he knows I am thinking, which is always dangerous. <br />
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So he sends back: <br />
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"I love you too man! You OK?"<br />
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I responded with: <br />
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" Just when crap breaks loose like last night, I worry a bit more about you and the world we live in and have created."<br />
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He responded with: <br />
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"It's going well. I was watching some of the coverage at work last night. What can you do but remind yourself you live in one of the nicest areas of a very decent community within one of the most diverse and prosperous metro areas within one of the most economically stable, beautiful, proud states in a nation that stands at the very top of the ladder in the order of the most advanced and sophisticated species on the planet? Not so bad. Sure crazies are out there. Sure people will succumb to fear and hate. But we have the best chance of anyone in the known universe of living a good life and enjoying our journey here. How many people get to say that? We'll be alright."<br />
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My response: <br />
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"Excuse me. Is this Daniel Wood? Paul Wood's son? LOL. of course you are right and I am proud that you see that. I love you buddy."<br />
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While I was proud he understands that he and I have not had the conversation that while we do have that chance, not everybody here has that chance. I was incredibly proud of him both then and now. I was glad he understood that much and I am sure he understands a lot more. We will continue to have those discussions. He taught his old man something that night.<br />
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So much to learn and so little time.<br />
Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-26291742044933208252016-07-04T20:17:00.000-07:002016-07-04T20:17:41.006-07:00Have You Had The Talk?Thank you <a href="http://www.aimeebartis.com/">Aimee G. Bartis</a>! Aimee has been on a real writing spree this summer all because of a book she read. "Start" by Jon Acuff. As a result she has had me thinking about getting back to writing. The difficulty I have had is write about what? <br />
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So the first question I have is have you had the talk with your parents? Many people that I have come to know have lost a parent or both and I have seen the struggles they have gone through. I hate to see people hurting. I wonder if they have had the talk. The talk about what the parents want done as they age? As the parents become disabled? As parents move toward that transitional stage of life from here to there.<br />
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My family is fortunate in that we have had the talk with mom and dad and we are pretty much on the same page. I say pretty much because once you get to that point, emotions happen, a lot of emotions. As a result sometimes the thought process can get very skewed. Our dad is 90 and our mom is 89. 10 years ago dad was burned over 45% of his body and all of his burns were third degree. Mom was there by his side as were all of the children. There are 6 of us altogether, three girls and three boys.<br />
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Dad is doing well all things considered. He mowed his lawn up until three years ago and had to quit and then he had an aorta valve replaced. Our mom has early onset dementia diagnosed 10 years ago. Two months ago she fell at home and broke her hip. Surgery, rehab for 21 days and she returned home, yet the care she needed was not going to happen at the house as dad was hoping. We put in to place a lot of care and a lot of hours during the day for them both. As we looked, we came to realize that the cost for this care was greater than many, very good facilities.<br />
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So we gently began talking with dad about next steps. It wasn't until he had a chance to reconcile the fact that mom will probably not return home from the care facility that he was able to come to terms with the decision. These are not easy decisions, especially when your parents of part of "THAT GENERATION." They can't be made like you make business decisions. I hope you have had the talk. If not, I hope you can initiate it with your parents.<br />
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For some of us, mainly talking about myself here, I have had the discussion with my son and also Diane. Yep, I am that old.<br />
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So much to learn and so little time.<br />
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Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4321676876080353610.post-21938203422807341222011-06-26T05:31:00.000-07:002011-06-26T07:01:35.863-07:00Pre-ISTE 2011 MusingsAs I sit and contemplate the begining of <a href="http://www.iste.org/conference.aspx">ISTE 11</a>, I wonder how many are concerned with being heard, seen, or just being noticed. Lately there have been many wonderful posts about what to do and how to approach an ISTE and the immense overflow of input that people will face as they try to ingest the gluttunous amount of stimuli. I have already heard someone state "I am star struck." So many people are here to be heard, so many are here that need to be heard and so many that want to be heard.<br /><br />Recently <a href="http://budtheteacher.com/blog/about/">Bud Hunt </a>had a <a href="http://budtheteacher.com/blog/2011/06/22/engchat-twitter-chat-with-purpose/">post</a> wondering if we are listening with all of the talk and "chatter" that is going on. While <a href="http://bethstill.edublogs.org/beths-bio/">Beth Still </a>has done a good job with trying to include more people, especially the "<a href="http://bethstill.edublogs.org/2011/01/22/iste11-newbie-project-2/">newbies</a>," I still wonder if we are reaching out enough to truly be inclusive?<br /><br />There are many that have worked hard to attain the "status" they have and I applaud them for that and I hope they continue to forge the way. There are many trying to be heard and I sometimes feel that it is hard to be heard over the din. Everyone knows there are problems with schools, everyone knows that the politico's are trying to balance budgets on the backs of teachers and schools, everyone knows that economy is hurting everyone.<br /><br />But as I look around, many of the things we are doing are merely a GUI digital version of what we have been doing for years. One of the differences is that we can do the same things with people from all over the world. I have so many questions rumbling around in my head and the main part of ISTE 11 hasn't even started. I guess my main point in all of this is YES, we have problems but how are we solving them? What are WE doing to make things right? How are we as leaders laying it on the line to make it better for all of those who are trying, who do give a damn, who do reach kids each and every day and may not have the electronic tools that some of us have?<br /><br />How are we supporting what our children need? I believe that Tech Directors (and that is what I am) or the keepers of the networks, need to loosen their death grips on "their" networks. The world is unfiltered. Does that mean let it all through? No, of course not. To me it means block the crap but still teach our children to continue to refine their crap detectors. Show responsible digital citizenship and in order to do that we have to allow our colleagues to be the professionals that they are each and every day.<br /><br />We also need to listen and we need to listen the old fashioned way with mouths shut and both ears open with an open mind. We may need to do it the truly old fashioned way by repeating what the other person says and stating it so that they have an opportunity to say no this is what I meant and then formulate an answer. I must admit that when I first started as a tech director it was all about the hardware, the stability and speed of "my" network. Now I work with my boss and the curriculum director and it is the educational needs of our students and school that drive what our network does and definitely not the other way around.<br /><br />Fortunately, I have a great boss that allows me a lot of freedom and as a result this is my 13 or so ISTE. But 4 years ago I met some of those folks I consider true leaders who helped me to understand and to truly "get it." I am just thankful that the Lord helped me to be open minded and willing to continue to learn because that way I can take the time to hear what is being said and continue to learn from there.<br /><br />I hope you have a great experience at ISTE and don't merely run from one thing to another. Take the time to truly engage with people, listen to what they are really saying and learn what you need to learn to help resolve some of the issues that you may have in your classroom, in your building, in your district or state. Just know there are people here willing to help and support you.<br /><br />It took me a while to figure it out. Enjoy your time in Philadelphia.<br /><br />So much to learn and so little time.Paul R. Woodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17931363863511977970noreply@blogger.com1